Thank you everybody for replies,
At this moment with a total of 14 peers bgp process shows nearly no load (<1%, with 3,5% peak). As for external route-reflector setup, I want to avoid it in order to keep the amount of hardware needed for network operation to minimum, that is fit as much as possible on central Extreme switches, which are hardly ever restarted and don't need as much maintenance as "software" bgp server.